Who Else Wants To End The Feeling Of Losing Control? (Part.. 2)

Apr 22, 2012 by Joshobuya

The feeling of losing control is an ILLUSION. This is what was covered in the previous post. It was the first part of learning how to end the feeling of losing control. Here’s more of the intriguing message that was covered in the first part.

In that post, we saw what lies in the power of intention. We saw its argument in getting to end the feeling of losing control. In this second part, we will take a look at how one can be in control of what happens around him/her. We’ll also take a look at what happens behind the scenes and try to understand the logic of what I was “blubbering” on being in control; as well as getting to stop the feeling of losing control.

There was an explanation on the universe rearranging various situations just to suit our intentions. These situations are at times “undesirable” and may trigger the feeling of losing control.  This is where the explanations on this second post begin.

The mind is very powerful. The feeling of losing control as well as that of being in control exist here. The power of your mind creates and controls your reality. This is done through two powerful forces; desire and will power.

Your Reality Is Controlled By Your Desire And Your Will Power

Desire is the energy that underlies all the manifestations of your abilities. It is a burning force within you and the creator of the need to have something done. It acts as an inspiration, or the foundation on which all goals are based upon. All our achievements start with a desire. It is normally so powerful that we hardly notice any impossibility.

When it happens to me, I feel as if I have already achieved my goal. I hardly experience the feeling of losing control at this point. I am always certain that I am in control. It develops further into visualizations; and at times, you can find me grinning out of day dreams. Desire excites you. This force is created in the subconscious mind, where “impossible” does not exist.

The will power on the other hand, is a cold, strong and keen controller of the energy to the desire force. It is the guide to what you want to achieve. The will power judges and considers the rationale of your desires. It can restrain and prevent you from revealing some of your desires. It also has the ability to catalyze your desires into a reality. This is what overcomes the feeling of losing control.

This happens in the reasoning side of your mind, Your Consciousness! It considers everything revolving around the initially formed desire. After this, one decides to go ahead and take action to manifest the desires, or seal it and return to sender.

The will also acts as a protector. It makes the person immune to undesirable thought waves. It repels any thoughts or opinions expressed by others that would discourage you. The undesirable things that occur in the line of our actions are as a result of our own underlying doubts or other people’s doubts. Your will power fights these forces and ensures that you do not go off track to achieve what you desire. In case you are easily discouraged, then your will is being under-utilized. This is what causes the feeling of losing control.

The will power not only protects you from expressed opinions, but also unexpressed thoughts that lie in other people’s minds, which are normally transmitted unconsciously. Yeah! it is that Powerful! it is the very power that keeps you in control.

When these two forces synchronize, guess what is created?…INTENTION. Intention is what is born through the union of desire and will power.

The desire and the will power are forms of energy with two action poles.  The desire draws, attracts and leads something towards you. It is an inward force.  The will power drives, pushes, urges and impels actions. It is an outward force. The desire aligns, while the will acts. When these two forces co-ordinate, another child called RESULT is born. The co-ordination of these is how you ultimately end up being in control of the things around you, and overcome the feeling of losing control.

Each of these forces has their strong and weak points, but together, they are splendid.  They are like male and female, opposite, but meant for each other. Together, they keep things under control and are the forces behind all activities and results.

Therefore, nothing happens out of your control. Everything is within the realm of your thinking and beliefs; will power and desire. Above, are most of the “behind the scenes” explanations I could present on the feeling of losing control being an illusion. There are other explanations, but, this one convinced me most. I hope you are as well.

Now that you have known of the illusionary feeling of losing control, can you actually get over this feeling? How can you manifest the control of things around you and not worry about undesired occurrences?

The third part is up already, it exposes a simple but powerful technique that I have used for 3 years now. It has always helped me in being in control and achieving some of the goals I thought impossible. I have also shared it with a few friends and the results have been tremendous.

Discover the simple exercise that will end the feeling of losing control here.